Both members of a very exclusive club (like ~0.2% of the population).

I'm pretty sure Jews make up more than 0.2% of the population.

Transexuals?

Scientology.

From Wikipedia:
We might control the world, but we're a small bunch. o:-)

Well I'll be damned.

Damn, preempted again!

My girl just changed her status on facebook to "In a relationship."

I'm wondering if she'll be mad if I don't do the same.

You're Jewish too?

ROFL

LMAO

lol

I'm not looking forward to that discussion/decision with the chick I'm dating. I've enjoyed being with her so far, but I don't know that I'm into her enough at this point to elevate it to a full-fledged relationship. I'm only the second guy she's slept with (and it happened pretty fast), so I'm a little worried that I let things progress too quickly.

Seriously though, why wouldn't you?

You'd own it if we didn't kill all the German one's...

Holy $#it! That didn't sound at all like I planned that in my head.

What I meant was that if you hadn't been reduced by ****ing millions you would have accomplished.....EH......**** it.......it was just a poorly worded post I'll deservedly get $3it for...

Send her a text message and ask her who she's ****ing. :D

Hahaha, I was going to ask you who "we" is! :D

Te'o is pretty busy at the moment.

I doubt he'll be offended...

I just think its sorta weird. Everyone already knows we're dating.

Would you be upset if she was seeing another guy on nights when you weren't available? If so, I think you should memorialize your "exclusivity" with a facebook commitment like she has to give her peace of mind.

I know what you mean about it feeling sorta weird, but I think it's probably good to ignore those feelings if you really like this girl and want her to know it.

Chicks are into shit like that though. It's stupid....but it's true.

You're not officially in a relationship until Facebook says you are.

Bump.
Just curious if the person that had a disagreement with me had any desire to elaborate on their position....

Run the other way

It's good and bad.. With more recording technology what's done in the public, good and bad, can be captured and brought to a wider audience.

At the same time, smart phones have allowed some very dumb people to produce content.

Want to stop , or at least the mitigate the effects of, dumb people, then ply your political leaders for more money and better usage of said funds for education.

Dating and Facebook don't belong together. If I'm dating a girl, she won't be my Facebook friend. Keeps life simple

Well, I don't know that she wants it to go any further/faster than I do at this point. I just never accounted for the possibility, that's all.

Either way, it's hard to say I regretted the way things have gone when I only had two hours to sleep when I spent the night at her place the first time.

Date #6 was Awesome. Date #7 is set for a nice evening on Friday night. Our first true weekend date night.

Sunday is is also set for a boat/beach day with her, her bestie, and her bestie's fiance. Big step.

For those of you interested, I am the special guest "expert" on UCLA radio show on dating called "Hookup with Dr. Jess" airing NOW. I will be on in about 20-30 mins.
http://uclaradio.com/wp-content/them...dio/player.php

Give us advice.

So I had a dream last night that I saw two of my ex girlfriends and they were both completely turned on by my weight loss and both wanted to have sex, but I turned them both down because I have a girlfriend now that I am faithful to.

I think this is the first dream I've ever had where I turned down sex.

Things are still going perfectly with my chick, its still exciting as hell, and I'm happy that I found her.

Welp, I dreamt I ****ed a prostitute that I overpaid for so what does that say?

You're a cheap ass?

Haha well when the archive goes up I'll post it!

Went to my girlfriend's sister's surprise b'day party yesterday, and they invited this chick that I was told nobody liked and they would be "fake-nice" to her. That girl was eye-****ing me the entire time she was there, it was uncomfortable.

Should have played along and grudge ****ed her on behalf of the home team.

That is awesome and I hope it works out, however, I have to warn you. Jason's only got 12 years in, a team may want him, and he may have to leave you soon.

We're all "only the second guy" they've ever slept with son. It is what it is.

ROFL They **** like porn stars and always say "I've never tried that before!"

I messed up and hooked up with my ex this weekend. Not sure that was a good idea.

Did u cum?

Rule of thumb. However many men a woman says she's slept with, multiply by 3 (and realize you're probably still short of the true number). However many women a man says he's slept with, divide by 3.

Meh.

Most of my girlfriends are totally honest and I'm never bothered whether it is low or high.

It's whatever.

That's bullshit. People lie about the amount of people they've slept with and, unless you were with them their whole life, there is no way you'd know whether or not they were being truthful.

It is what it is though. Everyone's had someone else's sloppy seconds..

Or sloppy 40ths.

I don't know what to tell you, man.

Maybe in your insecure little world this is truth...but the girls I choose are truthful, and we even joke about roster counts.

I could care less if a girl has been with 1 dude, 5 dudes or 100 dudes.

The past is the past. Some girls like to have sex more than others. Big ****ing deal.

of course I'm not jealous, obsessive or possessive whatsoever...

so the idea of a girlfriend of mine having sex with another guy before we started dating doesn't upset me, offend me, or make me feel insecure

what can I say? I'm rational.

If it's a girl you just want to crush, then yeah the dude count doesn't really matter. But, I just don't know about getting serious with someone who has been with a LOT of dudes, to me a lot is over 20 around 30. A girl nearing 100 that would bother the F out of me. Again, only girls you are looking at a relationship with does this apply.

I've heard this and don't think it is anywhere near universal. I don't lie and multiply by 3, and most people I found out there number it was never a nonsensical number and seemed about right, so I disagree with this.

why?

I disagree. I've never dated a girl who has gotten that high but that is mainly because most legit, personable, cute girls have boyfriends.

Either way...most girls I date are somewhere between 5 and 20. I don't give a shit either way. I only date girls that I really like and really get along with. I'm not the kind of guy who always needs a girlfriend or really ever wants a girlfriend unless it's just someone I really, really, really like.

and if that's the case, the number of guys she has been with prior bothers me ZERO.

Not one bit. Never. In fact, the only reason the topic ever comes up is because I think it's funny to assign myself a number and refer to myself as said number.

but no, if I dated a girl for a few weeks or months and the topic never came up...and I really liked her...and then she told me that she had been with 50 dudes prior to me...

it literally wouldn't phase me nor would I care

Same here, I've never really ran into a hoarder of men. One girl I knew in a sorority was around 30 dudes and she was 21, she was also known to have serious STD's, but that is about the worst I've run across. In my younger days I worked in restaurants so I've seen and heard a lot. Never dated a stripper either.

I've been a bar frequenter/try to hook up with a different girl every night when I'm single kind of guy for the last 8 years of my life.

my last 4 girlfriends have all been 22...when I was 23, 24, 26 and 27...

the last girl asked me how many girls I had hooked up with prior to her and she was baffled by how the number was that high...and I was like "well how did we meet?" at a bar, of course...

and I was like..."ok, think of us meeting like that...and then think of me doing that for the last 8 years..."

so it's just something that happens...the ones I have fun with or make me laugh, or are super hot...I try and pursue.

My friends think it is funny because the last 3 girls I've dated have all had IDENTICAL personalities...they call them Rick girls.

The last girlfriend (ex I'm referring to in this thread) we met because she was wearing a "America: Back to back world war champions" shirt and I thought it was really funny so I went over and started talking to her...and while we were talking every time a dude would walk by I would squeeze his ass and then he'd turn around to see "what the ****?" and I would emphatically point at her like it was her who did it which she also found hilarious...and then I woke up the next morning with her number stored in my phone (no name) and then I tried piecing together what the **** happened (I always black out when I drink)...

and then we met up the next night and I thought her name was Amanda for the first 10 days we were "talking" when her name was really Megan.

...I miss that girl.

What if she ****ed Frazod?

yeah when I was 20-23 I literally ONLY hooked up with girls I met and knew from working at restaurants...

I never really (or rarely at least) hooked up with randoms at bars.

the last few years my entire sex life is based off of meeting random girls at bars...mainly because I literally go up and talk to any hot girl I see and have absolutely zero shame if they reject me...oh and this only works with the 19-22 crowd...

I have a terrible success rate using these antics at adult bars and I'm not allowed to go into a few anymore.

well lets be honest

the caliber of girl I'm getting and the caliber of girl he'd be getting would never make this a realistic scenario

I land 7 after 7 after 7 after 7 after 7...

7's are the best.

They are hot enough...and most of them have outstanding personalities. I'm going to marry a 7, no doubt.

I'd rather date a 7 than a 9 any day.

...and I'm not cool enough to randomly hook up with a 9 unless she is 18 and at this point, turning 28 in a week, 22 is really the lowest I like going.

although I did go back to a 19 year olds apartment last Thursday who was friends with my ex's little sister...

that ended horribly, though

when I get to the bar, I know all of the bartenders...so I immediately lick off my stamp and tell every hot girl of age (21+) that I'm 19 and I give them money to buy me drinks...

and then when they start making fun of me for being so young I show them my ID and then they are like "omg wtf are you doing here you're like 50"...

PART TIME RESIDENTS OF MY TOWN think they are the only ones entitled to go to campus bars...

it irritates me

oh but then I'm always like..."oh yeah, I'm sooooo old...when you're 70 I'll be 75"...that usually shuts them up and gets me back into potential pounding zone

Sounds like me except I've been pulling 6's. Getting bored with it to be honest but the only way its going to change is if I change myself.

Some of you guys have no sense of humor.

That's a good line. Might try it some day.

Although, I've never even hooked up with anyone younger than me. Not for a lack of trying, though.

I draw the line at squeezing another guys ass to get laid. sorry

that's because you're a homophobe, and I am not

Actually, it's because I'm married, but that's beside the point. I have plenty of flirty ways to make a woman laugh (note, I said woman, not girl), that do not involve grabbing another guys ass. And no, I'm not a homophobe. I just see no reason to do that.

cool bro

and why do I care?

you shouldn't. grab away. Be careful though, you might get your face punched in.

nah I'm physically superior

I wonder how many definitions there are for "dating"? I call what you guys are talking about "hooking up". Then again, you guys would probably have a different definition of hooking up.

Buck is in love.

most of my stories are of the hookup variety but sometimes I end up dating girls I hook up with

not often

I've had two serious girlfriends in the last 4 years

To me, dating is seeing one person only. Hooking up is either picking a person up for a one nighter, that then may lead to dating. Perhaps the rules have changed, I've been out of the game for 20 years.

DaKCMan AP and his Awesome lady's relationship is now of the exclusive dating variety.

Dating = money spent on person of opposite gender (or same.. NTTAWT) that may or may not end in sexy time.

To me, dating means that you go out on dates. A relationship is that too plus just spending time together around the house or going to do mundane things with the other person (like chores or errands) just because you enjoy their company that much.
Congrats man. Feels great, don't it?

And if I were???

:thumb:

It wouldn't count as merely hooking up.

Ok well I never stated that I was merely hooking up with anyone...and I'm not in love yet.

I was responding to luv's statement that the guys in here aren't really talking about dating, they're talking about hooking up. I used you as a counter example.

And yes you are. :Poke:

oh you're in love

I hate the people that think there is a certain amount of time that needs to by before you can be in love

I can tell by your posts

you're in love brah

nothing to be ashamed of

Correct.