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Dave Lane 12-06-2012 10:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9185559)
You know, the more I think about it, it's probably a blessing I'll be single. Why the **** would you get emotionally invested (at the very least) when all your significant other is going to do is break your heart anyway?

Agree I've been single for a decade now and really not sure that will ever change to a marriage again. A SO yes but life is way too good after hanging out with my married friends. They all tell me I'm living the dream.

FlaChief58 12-06-2012 10:12 PM

My ex is a whore




















Too much?















But, yeah some people just can't be with just one person

HoneyBadger 12-06-2012 11:14 PM

What about if you're dating someone young, know you will not marry them, and cheat? If that's the case, maybe a cheater isn't always a cheater.

ThaVirus 12-06-2012 11:50 PM

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Originally Posted by HoneyBadger (Post 9186933)
What about if you're dating someone young, know you will not marry them, and cheat? If that's the case, maybe a cheater isn't always a cheater.

Personally I could never condone cheating. If you feel the urge to go out and bag and tag some strange puss then just DON'T be in a committed relationship.

..But that is what comforts me knowing that I was once "the other guy". We were young and in the grand scheme of things, those relationships don't really mean a whole lot.

Discuss Thrower 12-07-2012 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9186773)
That's pretty rough but people make mistakes..

Did/do you feel obligated to tell the fiance?

**** no. The realization of how big the guy was / able he was to beat the living **** out of me sparked a panic attack I rightfully deserved.

I guess the silver lining is they wound up breaking off their engagement, but still. I broke my own code and am a shitty person for doing so.

Setsuna 12-07-2012 01:41 AM

So cheating extends to emotional cheating as well right? Not just physical or does OP just mean physical?

Phobia 12-07-2012 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian (Post 9185590)
It's also a good way to get your ass beaten or killed.

I don't need that kind of shit in my life.

I agree. It is very difficult to live a life when you've just been killed.

Phobia 12-07-2012 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave Lane (Post 9186788)
Agree I've been single for a decade now and really not sure that will ever change to a marriage again. A SO yes but life is way too good after hanging out with my married friends. They all tell me I'm living the dream.

We don't hang out much but I agree you're living the dream roughly 4 days a year or so. The other 361 days I'm living the dream. Unless you have 4 or 5 regular chicks who love you unconditionally and are willing to bear your children and still love you for all your stupid faults, I think I win. But you likely prioritize differently so, whatever. It takes all kinds. I don't dislike gay people, Dave.

R8RFAN 12-07-2012 03:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Chiefspants (Post 9185593)
It would be interesting to see the results if this were an anonymous poll.

No such thing on Vbulletin

Chiefspants 12-07-2012 03:46 AM

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Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 9187193)
No such thing on Vbulletin

This one isn't anonymous?

R8RFAN 12-07-2012 03:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Chiefspants (Post 9187194)
This one isn't anonymous?

All the mods can see who voted if they want to so no...

BIG_DADDY 12-07-2012 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by theelusiveeightrop (Post 9186295)
If I wanted some strange, I wouldn't have gotten married. Marriage isn't for everybody. Hopefully one finds this out before marrying. Otherwise, the consequences rarely end well.

Really? I don't believe that. Think it’s more a matter of people honoring their marriage, not a matter of whether you would like some strange. Attraction isn’t a choice. If you are not feeling that when you see a smoking hot babe then you have a very low sex drive.

BIG_DADDY 12-07-2012 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Dave Lane (Post 9186788)
Agree I've been single for a decade now and really not sure that will ever change to a marriage again. A SO yes but life is way too good after hanging out with my married friends. They all tell me I'm living the dream.

The only reason to get married is to have a kid, period.

Saul Good 12-07-2012 10:38 AM

I'll tell you what...I'll bang your girl, and then you can see if she bangs other dudes later on. Just say the word, and I'm willing...for science.

Brock 12-07-2012 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia (Post 9187129)
We don't hang out much but I agree you're living the dream roughly 4 days a year or so. The other 361 days I'm living the dream. Unless you have 4 or 5 regular chicks who love you unconditionally and are willing to bear your children and still love you for all your stupid faults, I think I win. But you likely prioritize differently so, whatever. It takes all kinds. I don't dislike gay people, Dave.

Sure! Now if you'll excuse me, I have to get back to doing whatever I want whenever I want.


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