Engaged couple loses weight together. Guess who breaks off the engagement.
 

She does, because she got hot and clearly decides she can do better. LMAO :doh!:

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Life would be better if everyone was gay.

Women are the devil.

Men are troublesome creatures—tho' necessary. :D

When you grind out that loss you do change.

That bitch will be 220+ again in no time.

Right after she gets married to some fool.

Marrying simply for looks is why divorce happens.

LMAO was working with a suicide prevention center and happily single just sound so wrong in the same sentence.

lol

F that crack whore.

A comedian, Seinfeld I think, once said "Marry for smarts not looks. As we age, the looks start to fade but we can do twinks to fix it a bit. Thus marry for smarts. We can fix looks but we can't fix stupid."

Meh. Worked out better for them both.

Wait, so she lost 89lbs? that means she still weighs 166lbs. In Texas that is still fat unless she is 6' tall with DD breasts.

I definitely think this applies to a few here.

She does not look fat in that picture in the OP.

Well, unless you share Omaha's opinion on women.

She probably looks decent... When dressed.

She will end up with someone she deserves...

She is 5'10". 166 is not too bad

I'm a firm believer that relationships are bad for your health. Ever since I've been in a relationship I eat terribly. I eat horrible food. I go out to eat all the time. I work out less than ever. I'm perfectly content eating brown rice, water, and boiled chicken breasts but for some reason for women a meal is some social event that needs to be planned days out in advance.

When I was single I worked out 3 times a week, didn't have a sig other requiring me to do anything. I've recently began trying to eat more healthy, but that has done nothing to upset the warden, she just storms off complaining that I'm too picky.

She will put it all back on and then some once some fool marries her.

I watched the show. I felt really bad for him when she told him. You can tell he was really hurt. But it is better that they found out before they got married.

I'm under the assumption that all that is not that bad if you mix some veggies in there and work out a couple times a week.

Would still the girl

I've been reading some and watching some documentaries about the food industry and it's kind of scary. Now, morally, I could care less if they have chickens in confined cages, or feed Cows dog shit if all I care. But, the result of being more efficient and providing cheaper meat, grains and produce is more chemicals in our food and cancer causing agents. I still haven't made up my mind about it, but the more I read the more I get concerned.

This thread just reminded me I need to get a divorce.

I can see why this upset Clayanus.

Texas is one if the fattest states in the U.S.

True but there are few delusions about it. (barring San Antonio)

When I read threads like this started by Clay, I can actually feel the little fat boy inside of him crying for acceptance.

Well they do say you gain an inch on your penis for every 35 pounds lost. So losing 242 pounds could be very damaging on a vagina.

Just imagine that loose hanging skin......all over.

He probably didn't have many/any sexual eperiences , considering his physical condition, beyond her. Let him get his knob waxed a time or two and he'll be all "who?, Shamo?"

You need to man up and take control of your situation. Otherwise, you'll wake up one day, only to realize that you're 70 pounds overweight.

Also, if you refer to your SO as "The Warden", it's time to move on.

Good grief.

Everyone on CP must have lost a shit load of weight.

she moved in with her mom?

ya dude, she did you a favor.

ultimately, kudos to her for not wrecking his life down the road by marrying him with doubts.

What a Bitch

Actually, I disagree.

She inspired him to lose 242 POUNDS. He lost more weight than most people WEIGH.

He improved his health, he found a passion, moved on and is doing much better in life. While it's too bad their relationship ended, they're both better off, especially him.

Win for him. Huge win.

Losing that much weight changes you. You look at life differently.
I bet one of the biggest results of losing weight is divorce or breakups.

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Not the point ... She got skinny, went home, got attention, ****ed other dudes, and then made an excuse. Let's not pretend otherwise

She was the break up-er and he was the break up-ee. Getting dumped can suck. I've had it happen once or twice to me but I've done more breaking up overall.

His X is half way across the country. That helps to move on. Good for him!

He was probably a total dweeb...and when she lost that weight she started getting the attention she never got before and decided to be a slut. Fine, I get it. But definitely a Bitch move

The most important part is that HE lost 220+ pounds.

That she ended up as a "bitch" is irrelevant.

That relationship was the best thing that ever happened to him.

I don't disagree, Dane, at all. I disagree with your notion that you disagree it was a Bitch move solely because he bettered his life. She was clearly good for him ... Doesn't mean he deserves being left behind like that because she upgraded her life as well

And I can guarantee you she left because she figured out she could get the attention she never got before ... 100% certainty ... I used to bang a young girl who lost like 90 lbs and they NEVER shed their fat girl insecurity

You banged Clay's sister?

I mean, I would

A "bitch" move would have been, IMO, if she had lost significant weight but he failed to do the same.

As it turned out, he lost significantly more weight, found a new passion and a new place to live, not out of pity or spite. Yet, she moved back home to her mom.

Seems to me, he's the lottery winner here.

Ok you win

"Drop that zero and get with the Hero"

Claythan Weendlerr

Doesn't really upset me. Clearly he is better off.

I do think it is funny how women can jump ship the minute they start getting other male attention. Everything they built together for 7 years went out the window when she realized she had other options.

Yup, plus his options have increased as well. wouldn't suprise me if he's breathing a sigh a relif and looking forward to his future.

Sounds like you are dating the wrong person.

I dated a wonderful girl for a month earlier this year. We NEVER went out to dinner. She was the most low maintenance, smartest, prettiest girl I've ever encountered. She really broke the mold.

But they didn't build a damn thing. They were just in a toxic codependent relationship and once she lost the weight, got some confidence, got healthier, and started seeing more of life she wanted to move on.

That's ****ing normal and healthy.

Why is it the norm to call someone that ends a relationship an asshole/bitch?

Is it wrong for someone to do what makes them happy/they think is right for them? Should they continue a relationship for no reason other than the fact that they started one?

....past tense?

It's not the "Norm".

Clay is a He-Man Woman Hater.

Isn't that obvious?

Yes. Sometimes things don't work out. Amazing woman, though. Truly. I only wish she realized it (low self esteem).

It happens often. Very often.

Then you need to look within. Then, and only then, will you be able to choose well.

It's a hard lesson to learn, one that I had to learn on my own as well. But if you truly seek a great relationship filled with trust, it's the only way.

Huh? What the balls are you talking about, Mr Miyagi?

Mr. Dane McYagi??? ROFL

Good god you're so transparent it's embarrassing idiots on this site ask you for dating advice.

It is a predictable phenomenon. Locally we have a running joke about the symptoms of a pending divorce or breakup.

Significant weight loss
Sparkle butt jeans
Radical new haircut
Change of clothing style
Tattoo
Stack of non-husband dicks
Breakup.


It works well enough we often are able to predict them as much as a year ahead of time.

Tell us a story, mr Iowanian.

Rofl

On a related note a guy who'd quit where I work about 2 years ago just came back last week. He looks like he's lost a good 50lbs, he's in good shape, and when he walked up his first day I said "so, you get divorced?"

Him: "Well, almost. It was bad for a while but we made up."

Yup. People be people...

How can the final pic be real. It has her at 170 and him still well into the 200+ range. Those ppl look 50+ pounds skinnier than that

Has anyone speculated yet that she had a fat fetish? It would be really disappointing in that case for your fiance to lose a lot of weight.

Your best post, ever.

How did you **** it up?

Didn't **** anything up. Sometimes life circumstances get in the way. Bad timing.

except that she's still not hot.

He'll be way better off in the long run.

Yup,

Add.. going to the gym, getting new friends, work social events..

She found out you like Dungeons and Dragons?