Read something interesting today about fapping and porn.
 

I read an analysis made by some folks that there is a growing epidemic of young men in this country -- dudes in their twenties and thirties -- who are experiencing an absurdly high level of erectile dysfunction.

The reason, they allege, is because of the abundance of online pornography. Basically that overexposure to pornography is causing erectile dysfunction as men have trouble getting similarly aroused to a normal, human woman right in front of them who wants to have typical sex rather than the outrageous shit you see online.

I don't know, I am not an expert.

But I have lived the life of a single, as someone who's watched entirely too much porn. Like obscene amounts. Inappropriate amounts. Shameful amounts.

And I've never had a single, recurring issue. I've had a couple episodes where Direckshun Jr. didn't perform the way he should, but 99.9% of the time, shit gets done, and it gets done properly. Porn has not dampened my "enthusiasm" for a good lay.

I know it will never get any open admissions here on ChiefsPlanet, but if you're brave enough to admit it has happened, go for it. I'm stunned, personally. I absorbed so much ****ing porn back in the day it was shocking, and I've had zero issues in that department.

Why be ashamed?

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Its should come [npi] as no surprise that Andrew Sullivan has a running discussion of this issue if you want analysis from big name bloggers, additional studies, etc.

Heard on NPR it also causes short term memory loss.

I've caught up with that thread. The consensus seems to be that overexposure to porn IS causing this wave of ED.

It's honestly shocking to me. I've never run across issues, and I must have been Mr. Pornography from 1999 to 2006.

Let's talk about your threads today.

Decrease in response to repeated presentation of a stimulus. Is it in play here?

I sure hope not.

However, I know this. It's helps me last longer, which the girlfriend certainly likes.

It would seem that the dik is a muscle like any other and needs use to stay strong. A guy who's getting none or one who loses interest in sex would therefore be at a higher risk of malfunction later no? Also suppose you're Dating or married to a fat smelly pig. Maybe the thought of some luscious boobies makes it easier for you to plow away. Not sure.

Don't remember hearing that. I appreciate the warning.

Or maybe ones problem with ED when in the presence of a naked women are watching porn for the dicks and not the pussy.

If you want the totally inaccurate theory, look here.

lol @ the Hog

For an average Joe, perhaps...

I put a death grip on it for years so...yeah...

shit, I'm too tired and stressed out to even fap; let along get the freak on.
I get home from work, do the dinner thing, clean up; work a bit on the laptop; I'm ****ing tired at the point. usually around this time I can barely keep my eyes open on most nights.

zero desire to boink.

There might be something to this. I fell asleep during the draft because John Dorsey didn't make any of the trades I'd grown to believe were natural due to my overindulgence in Direckshun mocks over the past few months. I think I love Direckshun mocks more than real life.

lol, guilty as charged

I don't know about ED, but I can see a loss in libido for guys in long term relationships. Guys are programmed for strange, and unless you learn how to overcome that programming and keep the regular tail interesting and appealing, it's possible to fall into the trap of porn sapping the desire to get it on with the old lady.

LMAO

German teens and 20 somethings have experienced similar problem and it too was linked to porn I believe.

Porn is ruining the game for alot of guys. Lots easier to masterbate and go back to playing Tiger Woods than it is to go out and get rejected and deal with the "OMG" generation.

You last long with her because she's fat and smelly.

This is a real thing, I've experienced first hand.

It corrects itself within about a week of not watching porn though, at least for me.

Hurr hurr hurr.

Never dated a girl over 130. True story

I guess I could see how this could apply to people who are into really weird/disgusting stuff
Maybe get a little desensitized; but I doubt it is that common

I heard jerking it on a somewhat regular basis can help reduce the chances of prostate cancer

I don't watch a lot of porn.. Usually just about 2 or 3 minutes

The porn isn't the problem. It's the women who won't **** like they are in a porn that are the problem.

Very true although for the player it's great news. More fish in the nets. Every chick has to bang someone no? Biggest problem might be false expectations of the act itself. The chick you pick up at Harpos might not like being choked, analyzed and facialized like the porn star seems to enjoy.

Just gonna go.. get the paper....

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Unless the old lady is willing to have fun with sex.

Sounds like there is a lot of first hand experience there

Well, he's just painting a rosy picture.

So too much gay midget porn can have the same effect as too much regular porn?

That and there's also TMS to deal with.

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Porn and Tiger Woods are much cheaper than women sooooooooooo

Well if a girl got naked in front of me and grabbed my junk, I wouldn't have any trouble. If I knew that a girl wanted it, then I would get hard immediately but if I have doubts then I try my absolute hardest not to.

of course and they are just more satisfying if you have been out lately, you know you have to deal with todays princesses. I am not blaming guys to turn to porn. Like 2pac said...if all else fails I will just masterbate.

I'm also curious if guys now think it's normal to jizz on their girlfriend's face.

Just gotta find one who lets you!

my sexual prowess has definitely taken a hit because of online porn...

definite con

when I'm in a relationship I generally don't watch a lot of porn unless the girl isn't on the pill...and then I have to jerk off so I'm not fertile enough to get her pregnant

**** condoms

heh that reminds me of a funny story. One of my best friend's buddies (not an acquaintance of mine) dated this dumb chick for awhile and he told her the only way he could nut was if he jizzed on her face. She went along with it.

ROFL You must buy the morning after pill quite often.

jerking off decreases fertility?

I've never really felt the need to jizz on a girl's face. In fact, I don't even like to make girl's swallow because I just prefer the 'pulled out' feel...used to it. I did jerk off a few times and leave the jerk off tissues on my ex's pillow to establish dominance.

from what I've understood over the years

if you jerk off daily and pull out there is not a great chance of getting a girl pregnant

when couples try and get pregnant they tell the gentleman to make sure he doesn't ejaculate for 48 hours

it's a numbers game

and it has worked in my favor thus far

It's the ultimate act of sexual dominance.

You need to try it.

I did it once, many moons ago, on a slut in Dallas.

Magic.

never

my last girlfriend was like 20 days late (but she was SO stressed out over a few things) and she thought she was pregnant and she kept saying "I'm going to take the test" and I kept saying "please don't" (because I didn't want to know)...

then she started making me wear condoms (hate) and then one time she started her period and we celebrated.

I've had girls tell me I could do it...but the way I time things I keep it in until the last possible moment so it would really just be some sort of inconvenience for me to travel all of the way up to their face...

and then I'd just feel bad

the biggest slut I ever banged wouldn't let you jizz on her face...she said it was demeaning

and this girl was a really, really, really big slut

I'm not quite sure why that's the finisher in 99% of porn.

This. It is fun.

Well this particular girl wasn't ****ing me...just oral...so it was pretty easy. ROFL

In fact she refused to have sex, but really liked giving head and getting it on her face. :shrug:

sweet

one time when I was young I blew it in a girl's mouth because I figured that's what she wanted and she got up and ran to the trash can and spit it out and wasn't happy

I miss being 18 and not being able to watch internet porn. Internet porn has ruined a lot of what used to be fun about sex.

pros and cons
pros and cons

it's also an easy relationship replacement for men

I hate condoms too and have had many scares with long term gfs. My wife has an implant in her arm so there is no forgetting birth control. Shit is good for 2-3 years.

And you're nuts. If a chick swallows and doesn't stop right when you bust, it is one of the best feelings EVAR

I had a chick in college do something similar during a drug fueled night. She had some skills. She sucked me off 3 times in one night whilst doing drugs that usually aren't conducive to male sexual performance. Shit was cash

Aaaaaaaand now I hate myself for dumping a girl who would swallow.

Meth right? You ****ing tool

You dumped a girl?

Just curious. Is a swallower a rare thing? Or is it more common than guys let on?

You tell us.

Yes. Yes I did.

In my experience it seems about 25%.

I would hope you all have been with more girls than I have (which would only take you being with one). I have no idea what the sexual preferences are of women in general.

I know you women are always talking about that shit.

ROFL :facepalm:

a man can have both ya know

Do women spit in a towel or something? :shrug:

I've always wondered what. Spit cup? lol

I don't know but what's your opinion on it?

**** no. Meth is bath tub trash. I know it's your drug of choice but that's because you're a poor racist piece of shit stuck in bum **** nebraska.

LMAO

2 girls, 1 spit cup.

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I remember when I was 13 and I could satisfy myself for months with the SI Swimsuit issue or imaginary visuals of nubile females. Now I can't make a manual deposit without a closeup of some teen runaway taking protein ropes to the face.

Doesn't affect the social, carnal act whatsoever, though.

I've never had one that didn't swallow. I don't know if it's a run of good luck on my part or the amount of pressure applied to the top of their head:p

LMAO

My short term memory sucks. Hmm.