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Dayze 02-08-2013 11:51 AM

interesting. is that on Netflix?

I'll pretty much any documentary on any suject.

ToxSocks 02-08-2013 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Dayze (Post 9387251)
interesting. is that on Netflix?

I'll pretty much any documentary on any suject.

Yeah it's on Netflix. Watch it and tell me what you thought.

GloryDayz 02-08-2013 12:02 PM

I'm not certain that most people aren't in careers that they have few other choices "than." I'm neutral on the subject really. I think a lot of self-proclaimed religious people will try to keep the pressure on that community for a long time to come because it's not their choice, and the industry will keep on keeping on anyway. And after they get done condeming the other group for being different they'll run off to pornhub on their smart phone and make a mess. Nothing against religious people, I'm just saying that I think people who don't just live and let live are assholes IMO.

Dayze 02-08-2013 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Detoxing (Post 9387278)
Yeah it's on Netflix. Watch it and tell me what you thought.

10-4. will do.

Rausch 02-08-2013 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by King_Chief_Fan (Post 9386822)
and who will be first to marry one of these porn star women?

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1ChiefsDan 02-08-2013 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud (Post 9386146)
I can tell you for a fact that Kimberly Kane has very high self-esteem.

It's kind of weird: Porn chicks aren't like strippers. Sure, I've met a few that were somewhat damaged but these girls see themselves as "Stars". Most make very good money and surprisingly (or maybe not), most that I've met own homes, cars, etc.

I ran the financial aid office for a design school in Las Vegas for many years. A lot of the strippers out there are not only smart, but own homes and are preparing for their future by getting an education.

DaneMcCloud 02-08-2013 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387000)
I simply refuse to believe that most women who've had any kind of lengthy career in porn, are capable of having a normal and healthy relationship.

The point you're missing is that most aren't interested in a "normal, healthy relationship".

They believe what they're doing is just fine. It's part of their lifestyle. It's not like these women (or men) are going to suddenly "wake up" 20 years later and say "Wow, I should have gotten a "real" job" and not ****ed on film".

It's a completely different mindset.

DaneMcCloud 02-08-2013 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by I Am The Walrus (Post 9387343)
I ran the financial aid office for a design school in Las Vegas for many years. A lot of the strippers out there are not only smart, but own homes and are preparing for their future by getting an education.

While I've known a few with college degrees (pre and post career), Las Vegas is a completely different city than St. Louis, Illinios, for example.

Many of the Vegas strippers are working the system. They get that they'll make tons of dough for showing their assets. The smartest strippers I've known KNOW it's a game, treat the men as customers and never socialize with them after hours or at any point in time. It's a means to an end.

The problem is that 95% of all strippers elsewhere are the exact opposite.

Easy 6 02-08-2013 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud (Post 9387345)
The point you're missing is that most aren't interested in a "normal, healthy relationship".

They believe what they're doing is just fine. It's part of their lifestyle. It's not like these women (or men) are going to suddenly "wake up" 20 years later and say "Wow, I should have gotten a "real" job" and not ****ed on film".

It's a completely different mindset.

I totally believe all of that, but what a sad and empty life they're going to have down the road.

They'll be like Randy West living all alone in his 60's, unable to get a "normal" person to take a chance on them.

DaneMcCloud 02-08-2013 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
I totally believe all of that, but what a sad and empty life they're going to have down the road.

Eh, I think it depends. Someone like Sunny Leone, who's now producing as well as acting, is multi-millionaire and happy living the life she's chosen. Many of the girls have left the business after buying homes, nice cars, etc. and chosen to raise families.

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
They'll be like Randy West living all alone in his 60's, unable to get a "normal" person to take a chance on them.

I don't know Randy West but Ron Jeremy probably wouldn't complain about his life. As I mentioned in the thread dedicated to his health, he was a happy, very nice and down to earth guy every time I'd run into him.

There are a lot of people in this world that just aren't hung up on sex. ****ing on film is no big deal to many, many people and hasn't stopped people or people in that business from having kids, being married, etc.

Porn is mainstream. There's less of a stigma involved than there was 20, 30 or 40 years ago when it was "dark" and "taboo".

Rausch 02-08-2013 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
I totally believe all of that, but what a sad and empty life they're going to have down the road.


The only positive (and it's a big one) is that they won't base a relationship off of sex.

Good or bad they'll only stick with someone because they care about them.

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
They'll be like Randy West living all alone in his 60's, unable to get a "normal" person to take a chance on them.

I've never been in porn and never dated anyone "normal."

ToxSocks 02-08-2013 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
I totally believe all of that, but what a sad and empty life they're going to have down the road.

Eh, i think you're making an bad assumption here.

sedated 02-08-2013 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by scott free (Post 9387389)
I totally believe all of that, but what a sad and empty life they're going to have down the road.

This is attitude is just projecting "normal" values onto people who likely don't have "normal" values. While you may think a fulfilling future is having an office job, 401k, house in the burbs and 2.5 children, the people with the mindset to do porn or strip may choose death over that sort of prison. They likely relate better to people who have also lived alternative lifestyles, so don't consider that the typical mid-40s callaway polo wearing republican considers them unworthy of marriage.

People date strippers and ex-strippers all the time. That chick from "cathouse" (I think that's the name) married the head guy and is essentially in a management position of the brothel. She's also rich. (An unusual example, but an example)

ThaVirus 02-08-2013 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated (Post 9387437)
This is attitude is just projecting "normal" values onto people who likely don't have "normal" values. While you may think a fulfilling future is having an office job, 401k, house in the burbs and 2.5 children, the people with the mindset to do porn or strip may choose death over that sort of prison. They likely relate better to people who have also lived alternative lifestyles, so don't consider that the typical mid-40s callaway polo wearing republican considers them unworthy of marriage.

People date strippers and ex-strippers all the time. That chick from "cathouse" (I think that's the name) married the head guy and is essentially in a management position of the brothel. She's also rich. (An unusual example, but an example)

Truth right here.

And who are we to judge anyway? What's really 'normal'? Who is actually 'normal'?

I'd be willing to bet a lot of these chicks will go on to live happier lives than many people reading this thread right now.

Easy 6 02-08-2013 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud (Post 9387416)
Eh, I think it depends. Someone like Sunny Leone, who's now producing as well as acting, is multi-millionaire and happy living the life she's chosen. Many of the girls have left the business after buying homes, nice cars, etc. and chosen to raise families.



I don't know Randy West but Ron Jeremy probably wouldn't complain about his life. As I mentioned in the thread dedicated to his health, he was a happy, very nice and down to earth guy every time I'd run into him.

There are a lot of people in this world that just aren't hung up on sex. ****ing on film is no big deal to many, many people and hasn't stopped people or people in that business from having kids, being married, etc.

Porn is mainstream. There's less of a stigma involved than there was 20, 30 or 40 years ago when it was "dark" and "taboo".

I suppose i'm layering a bit too much of my own experience into what i'm saying, i dated a girl who'd previously worked in the escort business, had made great money, taken trips all over the place etc... but she truly was damaged goods after that, totally unable to form a "normal" bond.

Her idea of what went into a loving relationship was way outta whack, she figured that as long as she was giving you all you could handle, that was enough... beyond that she was a moneygrubbing liar and cheater.

Anyway, i guess my bottom line is that i'd never again try to put something together with someone who'd worked in the sex industry in any capacity whatsoever.


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