I actually wonder how many men put giving their female an orgasm at the top of the list when commencing intercourse.

Are we trying to put ourselves out of business?

Depends: married or single...

I do. I think men on average are absurdly shortsighted when it comes to this. The more you give, the more you'll get. ;)

Both.

Nice guys finish last.

Completely different.

Marriage goes in phases. Highs and lows. Better and worse.

Single requires a person (mostly male) to be at the top of their game every at bat...

Dickheads finish alone, in front of high speed internets...

Unfortunately there are men that can't. Thus did we invent the fake. To get you the hell off of us. AAs definition of insanity involves doing something over and over again expecting a different result. The intrinsic nature of a man to fix things is uncomfortable at times. Especially when he sucks.

Appreciate the fake, guys.

Indeed. Kind of, well, creepy, but my mother actually impressed the importance of the female orgasm upon my brothers and I when we were becoming adolescent. I actually knew guys in high school who weren't even aware that females could have orgasms...

Same time, but not every time.

Not me.

No fakes here. If she can't she can't, which can definitely happen from time to time. Faking it merely causes confusion about what works and what doesn't.

Women aren't as easy as men when it comes to orgasm, but trial and error and imagination and understanding certain basic facts (most women can't come from penetration alone), etc., and you can definitely understand causes and effects, and use them to (great) advantage.

Me neither.

And there's the dishonesty women despise.

There are exceptions: you ****ing ruined your foot at work and it's so sore you can't think and yet you relent and....just......whatever....just.....JUST already.

I get that.