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Mrs. Loopner 10-29-2013 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by AndChiefs (Post 10136284)
So I imagine I'll regret this...but...I met a girl at a Halloween party over the weekend but she left a bit early and I was unable to get her number before she left.

I reached out to a mutual friend who I got her number from. I'm going to ask her out either way but obviously it's a bit odd to have someone randomly call you when you didn't give them your number.

So my options:

1. Call her and ask her out. Could put extra pressure on her to say yes when she doesn't really want to. Positive is it will be viewed as a more assertive option over texting.

2. Text her and ask her out. Less assertive, less pressure on her.

I'm leaning towards calling but wanted some further opinions in case I'm missing something.

If we have a female that actually reads this thread your opinion is obviously welcomed. (KCGal?)

Call her. If she doesn't answer leave a message telling her how you got her number, when you met, and you'd like to see her again. Tell her to text you if she's interested that way it's not awkward for either of you if she doesn't.

Calling tells me you're really interested if you're willing to hunt down my number and call so I most likely going to check you out.

Bowser 10-29-2013 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by KCGal (Post 10137180)
I have date #3 set tonight! (With the same guy). On our second date he brought his air compressor because he knew my car needed air in the tires. That move was like a million red roses to this girl!!!

How many times have you said your first name with his last name to yourself?

Brock 10-29-2013 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by KCGal (Post 10137182)
I would be creeped out if someone facebooked me. I would prefer to be called.

Even if you had mutual frenz?

Cephalic Trauma 10-29-2013 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by KCGal (Post 10137182)
I would be creeped out if someone facebooked me. I would prefer to be called.

Problem is, if she doesn't remember him AND he got her number from someone, could be a recipe for disaster.

Titty Meat 10-29-2013 07:27 PM

My friend does this he adds girls on Facebook he's met 1 time prior. It's so embarrassing.

Cephalic Trauma 10-29-2013 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10139589)
My friend does this he adds girls on Facebook he's met 1 time prior. It's so embarrassing.

Do you think calling after you got her number from a mutual friend is better?

Not saying you do, just posing the question.

lcarus 10-29-2013 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10139589)
My friend does this he adds girls on Facebook he's met 1 time prior. It's so embarrassing.

I'll bet the NSA is laughing their asses off while they spy on him.

Titty Meat 10-29-2013 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Cephalic Trauma (Post 10139595)
Do you think calling after you got her number from a mutual friend is better?

Not saying you do, just posing the question.

Def. I think it shows confidence.

Titty Meat 10-29-2013 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by lcarus (Post 10139603)
I'll bet the NSA is laughing their asses off while they spy on him.

Who knows if he even messages them. I've had people add me on Facebook after meaning them once because I'm friends with a mutual friend then they dont say shit but give the occasional "like". It's just weird to me.

Cephalic Trauma 10-29-2013 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10139606)
Def. I think it shows confidence.

Well shit, I wouldn't do it. I think the ship sailed when he didn't ask for her number that night.

Get it during the night: Golden.
Get it through a friend: Eh, he might've thought it was more than she did.

Titty Meat 10-29-2013 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Cephalic Trauma (Post 10139630)
Well shit, I wouldn't do it. I think the ship sailed when he didn't ask for her number that night.

Get it during the night: Golden.
Get it through a friend: Eh, he might've thought it was more than she did.

There's a lot of factors that play into this I guess.

lcarus 10-29-2013 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini (Post 10139618)
Who knows if he even messages them. I've had people add me on Facebook after meaning them once because I'm friends with a mutual friend then they dont say shit but give the occasional "like". It's just weird to me.

I pretty much quit Facebook once I realized it was all women either bitching about minute shit or celebrating trivial shit. Congratulations...you posted a picture of some Hamburger ****ing Helper you just made. The only reason it has 18 likes is because 15 of those people are guys that want to bone you and 3 of them are girls that are as reeruned as you are.

Pasta Little Brioni 10-29-2013 07:58 PM

Sure, he should gave gotten it then, but it doesn't hurt to give it a shot.

Hammock Parties 10-29-2013 08:52 PM

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Titty Meat 10-29-2013 09:01 PM

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