Went on my first match.com date last night. The only glaring flaw is the guy is a KU fan, otherwise I had such a good time.

I see no flaws here. You'll enjoy his company when college basketball season gets into full swing.

A friend of mine dated a former VJ for CMT.... she received 82 messages her first day on Match.

Don't ask out curvy chicks (if that's not your thing). They're just as likely to reject you as attractive girls, and the rejection feels way wore.

Have you checked out Tinder?

Only get messages from SpamBots

So I imagine I'll regret this...but...I met a girl at a Halloween party over the weekend but she left a bit early and I was unable to get her number before she left.

I reached out to a mutual friend who I got her number from. I'm going to ask her out either way but obviously it's a bit odd to have someone randomly call you when you didn't give them your number.

So my options:

1. Call her and ask her out. Could put extra pressure on her to say yes when she doesn't really want to. Positive is it will be viewed as a more assertive option over texting.

2. Text her and ask her out. Less assertive, less pressure on her.

I'm leaning towards calling but wanted some further opinions in case I'm missing something.

If we have a female that actually reads this thread your opinion is obviously welcomed. (KCGal?)

Might be better to try to find her on facebook, friend her, and ask for her number yourself that way.

I think both your options can too easily be read as creepy.

Facebook route?

This

Last 2 girls I've dated for any considerable time I just sent them a message on facebook asking for their phone#.

Ahh yes that was the third route forgot to include it.

Seems to be the consensus so far.

Go get ya some bud ;)

Definitely call her. Tell her that you really liked how she looked in the slutty nurses costume and was hoping you could get together for a sponge bath sometime.

Do this:

http://thechive.com/2013/05/15/poor-...you-12-photos/