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Donger 01-17-2006 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DJay23
In essence, that's what I was trying to do. Not with the flowery language, but then again it's kind of hard when you are in a bad mood.

If you had just said, "Look, I'm in a really bad mood tonight. Maybe we should call it a night" BEFORE commenting on the ice cream, do you think she'd have had the same reaction?

Raiderhater 01-17-2006 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger
Yes, that's EXACTLY what you do. I took me a very long time, and considerable pain, to learn how to deal with females in such a situation.


If she wants to lock herself in her own bathroom, whatever. She wants to lock herself in MY batroom, totally different story.

Donger 01-17-2006 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by raiderhader
If she wants to lock herself in her own bathroom, whatever. She wants to lock herself in MY batroom, totally different story.

Heh. Rookie.

Sorry, but I just don't think in those terms any longer. It's all hers.

DJay23 01-17-2006 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger
Errr, yes, you were. You may not have realized it at the time (or now), but you set that into action.

Have you ever lived with a woman? You jnow, besides relations?

We didn't live together. She seemed not at all concerned about going home, and she made no mention of it. Read carefully:

SHE WENT PSYCHO OVER ICE CREAM.

Katipan 01-17-2006 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DJay23
Did you even read my original post?

The last bitchy thing I said was, "If I wanted chocolate ice cream I would have bought it." After that she was the one shrieking uncontrollably at the top of her lungs and I was the voice of reason.

Trust me, she was NOT washing her face or doing shit with her makeup. She was yelling at me from inside the bathroom and I could hear her stomping around. I take blood pressure medicine too, and she knows right were it is. In her state, I could easily have seen her dump it all down the sink.

Face it, you're just trying to stick up for WOMEN not this woman. She lost control, I was in a bad mood. Big difference.

Surprise surprise! Mer sticking up for women!

She could be totally not worth my effort, but I wouldn't know. All i know is how you responded. What you typed. And I think you're nuts.

Is the blood pressure medication because you have anger problems?

Donger 01-17-2006 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DJay23
We didn't live together. She seemed not at all concerned about going home, and she made no mention of it. Read carefully:

SHE WENT PSYCHO OVER ICE CREAM.

No she didn't. She went psycho over you using the ice cream as a symptom of your bad mood, and then telling her that she should probably take off.

Katipan 01-17-2006 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by raiderhader
If she wants to lock herself in her own bathroom, whatever. She wants to lock herself in MY batroom, totally different story.

Before I die I'm going to lock myself in your bathroom just for kicks.

DJJasonp 01-17-2006 06:56 PM

This isnt as severe as some of the others here, but I saw the early warning signs of pyschoisms and got out early....

Her: "Where have you been, I thought you left work at 5? I called your house at 5:15 and you didnt answer????"

Her: "wanna have lunch?
Me: "cant make it...tied up in meetings"
(I go to lunch late at 2 or 3pm later that day)
Her (calling later): "Hey....I thought you couldnt go to lunch???"
Me (scared sh*tless): "I couldnt have lunch with you today...tied up"
Her:"Well, I noticed your car was parked in a different spot than it was in the morning, so you must have gotten out for lunch at some point!"

That was the end of that. Thank God I got out alive.

DJay23 01-17-2006 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger
If you had just said, "Look, I'm in a really bad mood tonight. Maybe we should call it a night" BEFORE commenting on the ice cream, do you think she'd have had the same reaction?

Not likely as severe, but she's very emotionally unstable. Like walking on egg shells. Her outburst wasn't the surprise, it was the level and volume of it that was.

Raiderhater 01-17-2006 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Donger
Heh. Rookie.

Sorry, but I just don't think in those terms any longer. It's all hers.


You are thinking from the stand point of living with someone, that would certainly change the situation. I'm not talking about a live in GF or wife, when I say MY bathroom, I mean MY fucking bathroom.

In the case of DJay, it is readily apparent that they did not live togther.

DJay23 01-17-2006 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Mer
Surprise surprise! Mer sticking up for women!

She could be totally not worth my effort, but I wouldn't know. All i know is how you responded. What you typed. And I think you're nuts.

Is the blood pressure medication because you have anger problems?

It's hereditary, I'm the calmest most in touch with reality person you'll likely ever meet, and she's not worth your effort.

Donger 01-17-2006 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by DJay23
Not likely as severe, but she's very emotionally unstable. Like walking on egg shells. Her outburst wasn't the surprise, it was the level and volume of it that was.

I don't doubt that she's very emotional.

Raiderhater 01-17-2006 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Mer
Before I die I'm going to lock myself in your bathroom just for kicks.


If you're doing it just for kicks, I doubt I'll care.

Rain Man 01-17-2006 07:00 PM

Remind me never to buy that flavor of ice cream. This is the second fight that it's caused. It's nothing but trouble.

Donger 01-17-2006 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by raiderhader
You are thinking from the stand point of living with someone, that would certainly change the situation. I'm not talking about a live in GF or wife, when I say MY bathroom, I mean MY fucking bathroom.

In the case of DJay, it is readily apparent that they did not live togther.

Yes, I know. I just making the case that co-habitating makes you reevaluate such things. It also makes people tend to think more about dealing with each other and resolving issues such as this.


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